I was a free member for about 2 weeks, when I would get a lot of matches...nearly 10 a day. I was excited to sign up, so decided to try it out for a month. I'm so glad that I only paid for a month, because as soon as I signed up, I only get about 3 matches a day, and most are very far away or have a huge difference in ages. Seems like you pay a lot of money for only a select few matches, most of whom don't respond! I feel like it's a waste of $50.