eHarmony,
I was a sucker and signed up during free weekend. Seeing a picture really wasn't too important to me. I wasn't sure if the 1 good match I had would be able to communicate with me after the weekend was over. I paid for 1 month. As a person who was checking the site out in the first place I received over 25 matches. Then they started to dwindle down. Currently I have not gotten another match for over 3 days.
I am extremely disappointed in the areas to match in. Distance is 30 miles. I do not drive. Also I am under 5ft and I do not want to be match with men 5'10" and up. I closed a lot of matches just because they were too tall. However, most were good men I am sure.
Also, I wanted men who did not want kids or have kids living with them. Of course, a major portion of my matches have children.
I am glad I have the opportunity to talk with 1 man. He seems like a great guy. However, I too, had better results on Match.com. The last relationship I had was a 4 yr. relationship with a man I met on Match.com. The only reason we ended it was because he decided marriage wasn't for him.
Now I need to make sure I cancel my automatic renewal. I do not want to be charged any more money. My advice match.com or go to church or a bookstore to find nice and intelligent men.