I'm dissatisfied with eHarmony. There are major flaws with their matching system and being a marketing professional, good for them. They've marketed their ways into our wallets for whatever promotional dollar amount they're charging to build their database. I've been on the site on and off for one month stints for about a year (maybe 3 months) and while I've met people that are very nice, I'm finding that a lot of the men I'm meeting are really just looking for a hook up. Thats totally not what I'm looking for!

I've recently been chatting with a couple of men off the site in open communication, two have dropped off (they never shared their pictures with me while they've seen mine), another doesn't want to move past the email phase (its been like two weeks). So I've been looking around on the site to cancel my membership - this time for good. Ironically, they've conveniently removed the "cancellation" option in your account settings so you can't easy cancel nor do they have a phone number easily accessible to call and cancel. There are membership clubs out there that do this very thing and are caught up with the US Senate explaining their businesses and their intent.

I understand all the other posts and a lot of people are jaded, I've honestly had more luck on Match.com at 1/2 the price. At least there you know what you're getting into. I wonder where everyone is from who posts on here and if the challenges we face are geographically centralized?