I've tried Gay.Date.com in the past with mixed results. The quality of men is generally better than what is available on GayChubbyDating.com.

One man asked me to meet him at a gas station bathroom. He asked me to play a role playing game where he dressed up as Screech and I dressed up as Mr. Belding from Saved By The Bell. It was an odd request, but he looked so hot in his pics that I complied. He did meet up for some fun, but I never heard from him again. :(

I had fun with a few other dudes I met, including one guy who enjoyed being whipped in the crotch with a car antenna! Unfortunately, I've also been stood up a couple times, which was very annoying!

You'll probably have better chances of meeting a compatible gay man on Gay.Date.com than you would find at the typical highway rest stop, but be forewarned that there are some flakes out there!