I used eHarmony for 3 months in 2004 and signed up again for another 3 months in 2008. I was not impressed at all and it was a complete waste of money. The women I met were either not attractive or had serious personality flaws. I met a couple women who only had photos of their faces on their profiles, but when I met them I was disappointed because they very overweight but one wouldn't have been able to tell just by looking at a face photo.

I did meet two attractive women, but it didn't work out. One was very distrustful and basically assumed the worst about me on every issue because we met on the Internet. We dated for a couple months, but I got really sick of her attitude and ended it. The other attractive woman was 31 and had ended a three-year relationship 10 months earlier with some guy with whom she had been living. She was extremely bitter and rude, so I didn't want to pursue anything with her.

I am successful and do stay in shape, but I am 5'8 1/2", which is a problem for some women on dating websites. I actually get a lot more attention from better looking women in person than I did from the average-looking at best women on eHarmony.