I've been a member for a few weeks. I get about 5-10 new matches every day. Some of them don't have pictures or don't fill out their profile completely, so I just close them. Some haven't responded to my communications, so I close them after a while. Right now I'm communicating with three guys that seem really nice. I haven't met anyone in person yet. My experience with eHarmony has been great so far. Any problems with matches are the fault of the users, not eHarmony. For someone who hates going to bars and parties, this is a great way to meet compatible people. It's expensive for me, but I don't regret signing up at all. I think a lot of the problems people experience are due to their laziness or due to the users who do not fill out their profiles completely, or maybe the location that they are in. If you're in Connecticut, I recommend eHarmony!