I've been on only a short time - less than 10 days, and I've had many, many matches who live in my city. Some are very interesting. Most are a bit older than me, and that's ok with me. maybe it works better if you live in a big city - more choices. I'm not christian, and I'm still getting lots of matches. I haven't had the problem of matches with non members. anyone I send first questions to has responded, and I'm at the phone stage with a couple of people.

So ... I'm not sure why there are so many negative reviews on this site. I'd say it's pretty good for an online dating site. Maybe they should give out information on how many *paying* members they have in each area/region, so that potential members can evaluate their chances.