Again, as with past reviewers I would give eHarmony zero stars.
I only joined as I saw the offer of three months for the price of one. This was after being a member for a couple of weeks without subscribing, then they sent the offer via email.
I've seen the adverts as most of us have. The idea of matching you with someone who is totally in tune with you on all levels was very appealing.
But only receiving around 2-4 matches a day makes the whole thing seem rather expensive. After the first month I'd had around 100 matches sent to me. Of these I would say 25 never had any pictures posted. Of the remaining matches I found around 10 profiles appealing and sent icebreakers and I never received an icebreaker or any other contact back. For information: Yes, looks are important. In my opinion if you don't find someone attractive then it doesn't matter if you're a 100% personality match.
You might think it's because I have two heads or my profile isn't appropriate. But I think I'm quite normal, decent job, quite good shape, no baggage. I've had success in meeting people in the past through Match.com and DatingDirect so I feel I can measure eHarmony against these other sites.
I would say that if you actually want to meet a life partner through a dating site then spend your money on Match.com or DatingDirect.
As my eHarmony subscription comes to an end I'll be careful to make sure it's cancelled.
Rob