A waste of money for the average person. With online dating you have to look good on paper. Few people can actually look good enough on paper to make online dating really work for them unless you want to really lower your standards. In person you have chemistry with someone. Online you see if their qualifications matches your checklist, and number one is always physical. This site has nothing special over any other site, it's just a gimmick to charge more money.

So for guys, if you are a minimum of 5'9, attractive, and a career, any dating site will work well for you. With that being said, eharmony is expensive and the website is slow(I'm a web developer so slow loading is really aggravating to me). Waste your money someplace else.

For girls, you just have to be attractive, decent shape, and no kids. (Although many guys don't mind children).

The scam part. You will get matches from people that don't even have a subscription. The last 60 days of my subscription, all of a sudden they start giving me many matches every day. Which obviously don't have anything in common with me. I have been a member for 1 entire year. I have had a few dates and the compatability was low.