First of all to the idiot who got scammed out of money: this is your own fault!! Never, ever send money! People who ask for money are scammers. Every dating site has warnings about it. Don't be naive enough to believe them. God gave you a brain for a reason. And to everyone who says this site is a joke don't know what they are talking about. I have been a member for just over a month and have already met several women in person. I am seriously considering a committed relationship with one. EH DOES work. You just have to know how to use it.