Be cautious! I gave one star because I had no other choice. I can't believe how many scammers are on this site. I received multiple e-mails from men who had different photos but word for word identical profiles. They tend to say they are widows with children. I reported this to Yahoo as many ways as possible including profile IDs etc. and they haven't responded or removed the profiles. These "men" request communication thru their personal e-mails and then try to hook you in to how wonderful you are and how wonderful they are. Yikes! Always be alerted when the wording of their profile doesn't match how they are communicating to you. If it's sounds too good to be true it probably is.