I was beginning to wonder if something was wrong with me until I started reading all of the reviews posted here. I signed up with eHarmony for a 3 month tryout. I have received about 3 matches that looked promising in a 2 month period, however, they all disappeared off the face of the earth in mid communication. It has been extremely disappointing. I have been matched with men who are much older (20 years), do not share any of my interests, will not send me pictures, etc. Upon reading these reviews I realize some of these men probably are not even members!! I will definitely not join this site again. I joined thinking this would be a good site to meet someone interested in a serious relationship. I guess I should have read the reviews before signing up. Well, live and learn.