I'm very dissapointed in eharmony. I've been a member for 1 month and have yet to be sent an even close compatible mate. I don't think they even bother to match! Not even one guy has bothered to contact me- I'm 60 yrs. old and living in a small town, but I'm fairly attractive and interesting. My distance request was for 100 mi. which I feel is reasonable, but they've sent me matches as far away as Wyoming! What a waste of money! I'm glad someone mentioned the automatic renewl scam- I plan on cancelling before the 6 mos. is up.