I would give eHarmony zero stars.
I am an attractive, intelligent and outgoing woman and thought it would be fun to try internet dating outside of match.com and yahoo personals. MISTAKE.
The cost of eHarmony is greater and the return is ZERO. I have not met anyone on this site and at this point (two months into my three months) I don't even sign on to check my account.
My advice would be to stick with match.com and forget eHarmony.