Eharmony is pretty bad, but I think the members in general are a large part of the problem. I signed up making the (obvious) assumption that those who join are looking to meet people with the hope of finding a great relationship. I am a nice-looking, successful, honest, normal guy with many qualities that are supposedly attractive to women looking for a mate. However, very few of the many matches I have tried to communicate with even respond at all or even view my profile. The few that have responded mysteriously fall off the planet at some point during the communication process. It just doesn't seem to add up or make much sense. Take from my experience what you want, but something just doesn't jive at EH!