Waste of time and money. Their "matching" process is lacking any real substance or differentiation. I get the same matches as on match.com so I don't see any unique aspect to their matching process. Most matches they can offer up are miles and miles away and appear to be a match to help eharmony reach a quota of sorts. Most are not based on the criteria I established in my profile and are what they call "flexible" matches. I'm sure there have been many with good luck, but of the many people I know who have tried it, the experiences have all been less than desirable and far from the hype of the advertising promises.