I like okcupid. It has its problems, such as the inability to search for a person based on what they're looking for "friends, long term dating, etc." and the inability to search by body type. This makes the number of photos that someone has up all the more important. But the people on it, by and large, are fun. I've met three girls. One was terrible. Another I became friends with, and a third I dated for a few months. So I'm not about to badmouth it. One thing to watch out for is the fake profilers. It's not that okcupid pays people to flirt with you, because I don't think they do. It's that people will put up a fake profile to mess with other members. It's annoying and I wish that they would crack down on them. But beyond that I recommend okcupid.