I read the things written by all these people slamming eHarmony, and have to chuckle because the reasons are so shallow. "I can't see a picture first," "I have to answer all these questions about myself," "It makes me list the three things that are most important to me," "It's set up by right-wing Christians, so it has to suck."

All you people with gripes like that should stick to singles bars and clubs, or the "picture gallery" sites like Match.com and Yahoo. YOu all need to develop some depth because you're unable to be honest with yourselves about yourselves. You're obviously either looking for a short-term "thang," or are too shallow and/or immature for a real relationship. Good luck, because you're going to need it.