I'm a Canadian who just moved to California for a career. I decided to turn to sites like eharmony in order to start meeting people outside of my circle. After filling out the lengthy survey form and hitting the accept button, I immediately started receiving a slew of emails containing my supposable matches based on the outcome of that survey. After days of contemplating, I considered a 1 month membership with eharmony. I figured, I'd probably spend at least that much going on weekly dates just to realize there was no chemistry from the get go. Now, after reading so many negative reviews about the site, I have retracted my curiosity and I suppose I will now turn to the conventional means of meeting people. I'd rather waste my time having drinks with a complete stranger and it turning into something, than waste my time on a site forking over well earned cash just to be disappointed. Thanks everyone for your well stated opinions, this is one less eharmony customer.