Eharmony is a fraud and a total waste of money. I had dozens of matches until I joined. Then, matches turned out to be inactive members. I requested matches within 30 miles (of Chicago) and was getting matched with guys from Texas to Canada. The age specification was to 48, several matches were in their 60s. Nice guys, I'm sure. Just not what I had in mind at 43. It's not clear what the "dimensions of compatiblity" are but I'm pretty sure I got matched with Charles Manson. There's no customer service if you have a problem. I'd never, ever recommend this service to anyone. If you're looking to part with $100 for no good reason, donate to a worthwhile charity. You won't be disappointed and it's tax deductible.