I dated on many of the free sites match, yahoo personals etc. and not finding any real meaningful relationships. The guys I met were really just looking to score and most were poor. I then at a friends suggestion signed up for eHarmony. Although the questionnaire was lengthy I didn't have any issues with it. You would have to illiterate and a real dolt if you couldn't complete it. eHarmony's first test to get rid of phase I weeds. If they didn't like your answers and you were rejected then maybe it's because you shouldn't be dating at all and your a just a big loser. Because as long as you have the money and your straight that's pretty much their only requirements. Immediately after signing on I received approval and the matching began. The firsy guy was really nice and after the initial eHarmony online correspondence we started chatting on the phone. He lived in another State but he drove hundreds of miles to meet me in person. We met for lunch in a restaurant but when I saw him for the first time he failed to mention previously that he looked nothing like his photo so that was an issue for me as he resembled Shrek. I continued with lunch but that was the last time we communicated unless you count him stalking me via phone calls and hundreds emails later until he finally and blissfully gave up. eHarmony date number 2 was much better although he was kind of ugly he didn't lie about it so I knew in advance he was short and ugly. He had a fantastic personality and was alot of fun and it didn't hurt that he was a Surgeon and had this serious professional side. We dated for a few months but he was a little on the immature side believe it or not so we just became friends and remain so until this day. Match number three became my husband a wonderful, handsome, tall, fun and financially responsible man who is the love of my life. You know what they say three times the charm!