i have a story about jdate. my grandmother suggested i go on it because my uncle found his soulmate on that site. And she pushed me until i joined. and my parents approved. so i join and within a day a lot of people have contacted me and IMed me. i barely even chat with them and already they either want to go out, call me constantly, etc. i read some profiles and some people can be just nasty I dont want to even get into it. so yeah one person stalked me and wouldn't leave me alone and I got turned off by him because of his arrogance, then he harasses me and claims I play games. And then there is someone else that wanted to see me naked and I blocked him. I have reported these men and they did nothing about it. and then there was someone I thought I could connect with but there was a major arguement that just turned ugly and I tried to work things out but he wanted nothing to do with me. I just felt like I cant find anyone descent in my area, which is just under an hour north of nyc. I guess if you live in that area you have better luck. So I had to cancel the account because I just felt like people cannot be trusted. So yeah...that is my story.