I don't think I would even give this site 1 star as well. I don't care if the 5% of you found it to be great, I have been on that site for 4 months now at $50 a pop each month and feel its been a waste. Of coarse anything is possible, its possible to meet someone online just like its possible to get hit by lightening! And with every criticism I will give you I will say why.
I had allot of matches and allot of closed matches that I never even got to know. People closed matches based on who knows what! I mean they never meet me or even talked to me. To look at a profile and disqualify me automatically is weird to me. And I am not bad looking to say the least I will post a link to my myspace and or face book pages if you like!
I think this site attracts allot of people who are looking for the ultimate perfect person, and I'm sorry to say that doesn't exist! They don't look at relationships correctly. If you are compatible and got matched I am sure it was for a reason. Instead they just want what they asked for and if you don't meet the expectation they have created in their mind they show no real effort to get to know you. That’s called laziness!
The 3 matches I actually communicated with were horrible experiences. 1 person I went out with twice and he end up telling me after wards in his own words I wasn't good enough for him. He had the nerve to say he needed to be with someone he felt was smarter than him, F**k him! And he had the nerve to still try to get in my pants regardless of how "dumb" I supposedly was.

Date 2 seemed nice off the bat. He told me stuff like "I haven't felt this comfortable with anyone in a long time"
Then he just started avoiding me after 1.5 dates and ended up texting me saying he had no connection with me! On top of that this jerk said he had been married before and he never even initially put that in his profile. So if he wouldn't have lied, him and me would have never been matched to begin with. So not only is he a liar, but has no balls either!

Date 3 I never meet, we just emailed back and forth. I suggested we chat on the phone and he said after he gets to know me we will talk. So I thought that's cool. Next thing you know the match was closed, saying, "perusing another relationship".

These people never even gave me a fu**in chance! They act like they are shopping for a car not a relationship!
I refuse to spend $50 a month to be treated like this. I can easily get the abuse for free else ware!
I am of coarse being sarcastic! But I need to vent for one, and two I wanted to make people aware that it’s not worth the money you pay. And its sad to say but I have tried other dating sites and have gotten different but just as bad experiences as well!
I have no idea where to meet nice men these days and frankly I am giving up for the time being.

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