hmmm. Maybe all of the negative reviewers are just pissed because no one on eharmony wants to date them for whatever reason. Then again, how many of the people who have had positive experiences are going to get online to review it? Not many. No, it tends to be all the whiners who have had a bad experience that are out for revenge.

I started to check out online dating in general about 1.5 weeks ago. I got a short term membership on all the 3 major sites I know of: eharmony, match, and yahoo personal. Match and Yahoo have been an utter waste of time and money. Fortunately, I have already canceled my memberships and won't be charged after this one month "trial."

Eharmony on the other hand has been sending me 5-6 matches a day of mostly attractive women close to my age and with rather similar interests to mine. I can quickly see who I might want to "close," to any further communication based on their photos and/or profiles and the ladies can do the same to me. Some people might get mad and feel rejected, but I think this is great. If you don't think you'll be compatable with someone, you can quickly "close," the match and focus your time on the ones with whom you might share a mutual interest and attraction.

Already I have been communicating with several ladies none of whom I believe are fake profiles set-up by the company.

I can't attest to any success I have yet in actually meeting anyone in person, but that will largely depend on me and my matches. No online dating site can help with that.

Maybe some people need to take a closer look at themselves and not be so quick to blame others for their failures.