I think eharmony is a very good dating site, and I like that it is not as public as the other options. You are just matched with a few people every day and only these matches have access to your profile and photos. I feel that I am being matched well and that the men I have met, are very interesting to me and vice versa. In fact, I think I may have found love. What I am noticing is that in the first week you receive your the best, most proximate matches, so I recommend writing a really good profile right in the beginning because if you make improvements later, you may already have been closed out by potentially very good matches. Post your best pictures and completely complete the few profile questions to reflect your own unique personality. Later matches seem less appealing and from more distant locales. A one month membership is sufficient to get a feel for the available dating scene around you. I do find the matches are very interested in a committed relationship, and I have been matched with quality people. Good luck!