eharmony is turning out to be a joke for me as well. I am pretty attractive and though the matches they send me are not bad looking, out of all of them this week, only ONE initiated contact with me. I tried contacting 2 and neither responded. Also, even though I am only 5'3, I said I didn't want anyone under 5'9 and get the 5'6ers daily.
I joined match and had over 100 views, 20 emails and 30 winks in 12 hours!!!! Thank God, because my self esteem was suffering at eharmony.