Want to spend $59.95 to find out your matches from eharmony are not, nor ever have been, active?! I wrote a profile just to "see what happened". Got several matches, nothing too interesting until recently. Looked like a perfect match, so I joined to communicate. Come to find out the "match" they sent me was not a member, probably never was, and I'm the bait to get him to join. I've been scanned. Anyone know how to get a full refund?? p.s. if "-5" were a rating, I would have chosen that.