Patience... I don't expect to find the "1" in two days. That being said, so far I have had about 40 matches [member 3 days] 4 of which I am interested in and 1 who matches my profile almost to the T. I have made the e-harmony requested steps and set the communication wheels in motion. I was matched to her today [02/17/09] so like fishing i'll give it time. To give up after two days may be a little impatient or shallow.