In this day and age its sad that you have to go online to find a date or even more(or less).Bars are a bad place to meet someone but I meet my ex in one and she was a good woman,I'm being nice she got the 7 yr, ich and cheated on me.So now being alone and out of touch with the dating seen,it sucks.People tend to make themselves out to be more than they are and I'm no different,what happened?I don't want to be single and also don't want to lose my shirt and yes these dating services are a joke and you put your trust in them and right off the bat your kickin yourself,heard good things but few and far in between.Sad part is their playing with your feelings and wasting time,same goes for match.com,I demanded my money back and got it I was so dissapointed.Good luck and I still hope for the right one :) peace