I have tried e-harmony a couple of times only to be matched with either those that have nothing in common with me or never recieve any communication from the 3 I have been interested in. I was never into this online dting so I thought I would try it only to find out that even though I am as busy as I am I have had better luck meeting people by myself. I don't understand if there is all of these people out there wanting to meet a nice looking stabile gentlemman why it would be so hard for the professionals to find matches that are compatable with you. I must say I am less than impressed