Yahoo.com and Match.com are the two site I have used the most. The same thing goes for Yahoo as I wrote for Match.com....Frustration and futility.

Then I found a tool that changed the entire picture. A friend sent me to a site called matchmatrix.com. I thought they were another dating site. I was wrong! They are much better. They have a product called MEnU. I purchased it and now I run every person I'm interested in through this rating system. So far I'm blown away. First it nailed what did not work in every single relationship I've had in the past. But the best is now I get a rating for someone I find on a dating site and either contact them or not. Using a dating site became worthwhile when before it was like shooting in the dark.

BTW.. I am not an affiliate and I get nothing for recommending matchmatrix.com. Besides, if your using a dating site, you don't want to stop. I just think that everyone that is dating needs to user their rating system before they waste any time and heartache. I mean EVERYONE!