I have tried EHarmony several times over the past 5 years. Usually they give me another discount after I cancel. I have had over 200 matches that never answer. At one point I got to open commnication with a match that had lied about where they lived, and started asking me for money. Another one said he was in New york, and then when we got to open commnication he was in Nigeria. Both times I reported the incident, but it was very disturbing. I am sorry, but I refuse to beleive that I am so ugly that no one wants to talk to me. I am a 50 something yr old, full-figured female, not bad looking, with a great personality. I hear a lot of comments about obese profiles, and I think there is some prejudice aboout that on this site. I don't appreciate that kind of thinking.
Several times I have gotten winks from people, but when I respond they don't answer.
There are a lot of scams on this site, so what makes EHarmony different from the rest of the dating sites? They have the same false profiles as everybody else, and when you report it, all they say is they will remove it. How are these people able to get on the site in the first place.
I will not use it again, as I agree with other comments I have read, that the matches are from canceled members.
I don't need EHarmony to tell me if I am worthy.All EHarmony has ever done for me is to take my money and run.