In a word, eHarmony sucks!!! I've been off and on for four years, been "matched" to 500 women (of whom 95% closed the match the minute they got my profile). Of the few I started "communicating" with, I only got up to emails with three, and all three flaked off after the first email. I thought I was doing badly in the physical world (at five foot three, I'm not "date bait" in the lousy United States) but, if you want to commit suicide, eHarmony is the place to be if you want to be depressed.