no offense..but it sounds like the people who are unhappy with eharmony are the ones that did NOT find someone, which is not a good reason for a poor rating. I thought the matching process was long and therefore thorough. Many people I have talked to either met someone online or have friends/family getting married from someone they met on eharmony..just like the adds, including me!

p.s. to the guy who dated the girl who wouldnt take her coat off...could you be anymore shallow?