I read most of the reviews posted here about eharmony. I feel sad that so many were not able to experience what I have. Just as the "Ad" says, I met the love of my life on eharmony. My first wife (a wonderful woman) of 33 years passed away after a long illness. Several months following that I simply decided I was not made to stay single at age 57. I went on eharmony. I met several solid Christian women of very high quality. However, after a lot of dialogue and a few dates, none of them seemed to fit, even though I knew they were a true personality match with me. Then I met my present wife. She too is a solid Christian woman of the very highest quality, but she was very special in a way that the others were not. We were married a little over 3 years ago and everyday with her is more wonderful than any day before. I truly am married to my very best friend. Maybe the people that were not successful do not have what I have, which is the Lord Jesus Christ. With every match I had on eharmony, I prayed to Lord that "if this is the one, then open the door, if not, then shut the door." When He shut the door, it was very obvious, but with my present and most wonderful wife, the door never shut. It only opened more and more. I now know without question, after more than 3 years of marriage, that God brought the two of us together. "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths" (Proverbs 3:5&6). This is so very true and it is exactly what He did for me. I am happy in my marriage far beyond any of the dreams of my whole life. Give your life to Christ, who died for your sins on the Cross, was buried, and 3 days later was raised from the dead by the power of God. Believe in this, ask Jesus to forgive you of your sins, acknowledge that He is Lord, and He will change your life and grant you eternal life with Him in Heaven. There is no other way to Heaven but by way of Jesus Christ.