I have tried match twice and it is always the same. I am attractive and get lots of emails, responses etc but that isnt the problem. The lies are the problem. The men post wanna be profiles that are so far from the truth and I mean even simple personality traits! They waste your time with useless emails and or phone conversations all for some kind of ego trip. Most scrutinize you as if you are applying for some high security job and I mean physical attributes. They are only interested on what you look like naked. Nobody can describe themselves completely but come on after talking to them or even meeting them you shake your head at the delusional self image scam they are trying to pull. Its really too bad because I hate bar scenes and I am not willing to torture myself all in the name of finding a man. its all just too much work and frankly i would rather be alone. Nothing is worse than paying for the bait and switch! So ladies all I can say and do is find the things I love to do and hopefully someone will be there someday doing the same. We are all better than this dark and deceitful crap and dont get fooled by the ahhhhh so cute commercials of all the sweet matches out of what 25 million!!!!! The biggest scam of all? Dr, Phil that idiot will whore himself for just about anything he can get his name or mug in print on. Wise up the guy is a con and a fraud and so are most of the men on this site.