I joined this site about 8 months ago, and I have generally been disappointed with my experience. There are some success stories from the site, but for thousands and thousands of members, they are very low. If you are looking for the quintessential Christian, maybe you're dreaming. The owners do seem sincere in their attempts to bring Christian people together. I have been disappointed with the quality of the people there. I have given the experience my very best, and I have gotten very little in return. I'm just as attractive as anyone else and I have a good personality, am physically fit. I've spent over $100 now thinking maybe "don't give up", but I am on my last leg. I have gotten very few responses from other members, even when I have given it my very best to do otherwise. That is the most disappointing thing. The only steady contact I have is with someone at least 20 years older than me and I'm not even interested in. If you are looking to be treated with Christian decency and respect, do not hold your breath. I think my expectations were not unreasonable when I joined. If someone is not interested, I can understand a "we're not a match" or "thank you for your interest" and I would get the point. The bottom line is that even though it seems like the price isn't bad, it's been a complete waste of my money. You will not be treated with a lot of Christian respect, and you will have very little to show for your experience. I wish I could say otherwise, but I cannot. Also, it seems like a bunch of the same old same old. I've seen the same profiles as when I joined. Interestingly enough, I think it speaks about the success if you see the same ones still there. I would not recommend this site to anyone as it stands now.