I have been a member twice of eharmony. The first time for 6 months. During that time I got a burst of matches then nothing. And the quality was poor and nearly a third never posted pix. Then I let my account lapse. After I did I then got an email notifying me that someone was interested in communicating with me even though nearly 100% of the women I tried to open contact with close me out. So I waited nearly a year then too a 6 month special offer again. The same thing happed. Small bursts of matches followed by long periods of nothing. No communications really responsed and certain noone initiated anything with me. So I let it lapse again. Withing a month I get another email saying someone wants to start communication with me. This sure seems like a scam to me. Baiting back into take a special offer only to throw me just matches then wait til I cancel then toss me another bone of communication request. I think I will wait another year or more or perhpas try another service.