JJ in Seattle: I'm so sorry for what you had to go through, and all others who have had a bad experience as well. To elaborate on my overall experience with eHarmony, first of all, a good 80% of the matches I rec'd (1500 over a ca. 9 month time period) were inactive people, meaning, they could not respond to my ice breakers, photo requests nor to my Fasttrack communication request. And that's what we paid for? Inactive profiles? GRRRRRR! The real annoying thing with these matches, is the fact that you have no clue if they are current paid subscribers. The only way you can verify anything, is by not viewing your matches and eventually the ones who do view your profile, will change the status from "Communicate" to the "1234 stage" status. After over a week, I still had only 1 or 2 view my profile. Those matches would then close me out if uninterested.