STICK TO CRAIGSLIST IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A HOOK-UP.

Last month I paid for a membership on Adultfriendfinder but I met nobody. In that same time I met 3 women from Craigslist. Craigslist is free for anyone to use. Adultfriendfinder requires at least $20/month if you want to productivly use their site. Why pay Adultfriendfinder for no results, when you can find someone on Craigslist.

What's the problem here, why can't I met someone on an adult site? Because Adultfriendfinder is mySpace for adults. Most of the women on Adultfriendfinder are using the site for social networking. Or they're having fun reading the emails and soaking up the attention.

What I don't get is a few of the women I've talked to on AFF complain that the right guy isn't on that site. Quite a few of the women on there are looking for a relationship. The reason they came to Adultfriendfinder is because of the quanity of men on that site. If they want something serious then maybe they should join POF and not a sex site.

Here's my take on why I've met casual hook-ups on Craigslist.

I have often thought that women become horny and at that time are willing to take a chance on meeting a stranger. I discussed this theroy with one of the girls I hooked up with, She told me that she hadn't been with a guy in a couple of months and she was excited by taking the risk and doing something taboo (Sex with strangers). What I did to confirm this is put an ad up on Craigslist at a time when single people would be alone with nothing to do. The results paid off as I recieved 6 different emails from arroused women.

This window that women have doesn't stay open for too long and this is where craigslist has an advantage over these dating sites. With Craigslist you can contact someone right away via email for free. Craigslist don't require you to have an account, wait 2 hours for a profile approval, and then pay $20-30 to send a message. A woman is no longer horny by the time she goes through the gears of motion required by a dating site.

You have to remember these women feel they're taking a risk. They're only going to meet someone who'll safely fulfill their needs. It's a good idea to find out what women are attracted to and give them a good reason to meet you. These women aren't here to settle on the best offer they can find, you'll have to coax them out of their shell.