Wish I had read these reviews before joining e-harmony. My experience was similar to all these others. Many matches at first. Not many with pictures. No responses. I complained, asked for a refund, and threatened to file a complaint with my State Attorny General's office of Consumer Protection. I received a reply today. They were sorry I was unhappy but basically admitted that many people probably are not members anymore. They are changing my 3 month subscription to one month and are crediting my charge card for half of the amount I was originally charged. They are also terminating my account. They don't like people like me. I'm going to follow through with that complaint. Maybe more people need to do this.