My experience mirrors that of most of the others from the guys on here. In the real world I've had no trouble getting attention from women, and after a year of getting plenty of views on my free account at Match.com, I decided to finally pay for a subscription. What really prompted me to subscribe, was the discovery of a girl at work (diff dept) who was on there. She seemed like she was interested when she saw me at work, so I thought I had it made - here was an easy way to get to know her. And the night she showed up on Match.com, she showed up in my 'who's viewed me' list. So I composed a really nice message and sent it off. Three days later I get a response. But it was very flat, and emotionless. I responded back, but that was the end of it. I couldn't figure out why - everyone who saw my profile said it was well written with great pictures. The only thing I found to explain it, in her profile she listed her match making $75-100K. I'm making around $70K, which fell below the cutoff Match.com uses. I'm just not one to lie, since I did indeed fall into the $50-$75 range. After that I went on to contact dozens of other girls, but not one responded, including many who had viewed me. After two months of this I've had enough. With a month left on my 3 month membership, I canceled my subscription. I did it via their website (they give you a confirmation page/number). But before doing that, I changed my credit card number to a one-use one with a $5 limit (my CC company provides that service), just to be safe. In the suggestion box for how they could improve their service, I suggested finding a way to improve the male/female ratios :)