Eharmony is a colossal waste of money. They send you matches who aren't members and cannot write to you or respond to you. Also, my home page would tell me that no one has viewed my profile, not even anonymously, but there would be several "Closed" messages. How do you close a message without viewing a profile? And this business about chemistry is garbage. They basically send you every single person in your age range and within 60 miles of your location. I kept getting matched with guys whose best life skill is "keeping physically fit" and who spend most of their leisure time "working out." I wrote Eharmony on more than one occasion making it clear that I don't have a "model" body (this is not about confidence, it is about reality), and that I don't want to be matched with guys who expect one. Of course, I never heard back and I kept getting the same useless match ups. I noticed today, you can no longer write to Eharmony, even if you are a member. There is no longer any contact information on the website. I think I'm not the only one who's been complaining. Save your money.