Alright I can understand why so many guys give a negative rating I am gonna give the girls point of view ..... I do not have abnormally high expectations but if I am going to take a risk and go meet some random guy out I want to make sure he is someone I might be interested in and not scared of....I have found most guys ignore my profile and just look at my pictures and email me, they clearly are not what I am looking for, mostly being wayyyyyy over my age limit I am in my young 20's and not looking for someone who is divorced has kids or is over 35 I do not think this is too much to ask for at the most basics of my profile but no one seems to be able to follow it and god forbid I do not respond to an email I get harrassing emails back from guys who are so "offended" the truth is they should just read my profile and they will know why I didnt answer .....guys just need to calm down and realize even tho they are looking for someone so are we but us girls are a little hesitant and scared to just give out a number or go meet someone...I am a good person not a bitch like some guys have stated on here about the girls on match...I have talked to some guys that I liked but maybe they are looking for a 1 night stand and that is why they die out I give it 3 stars because it can work if you are very specific and put some work into it ..... it is what you make of it