I got one date in the first week with a real guy. A regular, nice ordinary guy (who was not separated long enough, but still a good guy.)

I have had no other serious emails. I've been on a month. I am an attractive woman. I'm smart and have a professional career. Maybe because I have kids? I'm not sure what the deal is.

I have even winked and emailed myself. No responses.

After reading these posts, I'm concerned they will ding my card for another 3 months without my permission!