Don't waste your money. Although this is advertised as a site that matches based on personality, unless you are young, thin, and beautiful, you'll never get a "real" match. Most men are still apparently only interested in the outside and never even take the time to try to get to know you...I've been a "member" for a year (just finally canceled) and never got one "live" match. What a waste of time and money. I too would have rated this a zero if that were an option.