I've had a better than expected experience with eHarmony.com. I've been in communication with a few women in the month or so since I signed up. Of course there have been plenty of others that I've closed out or have closed me out - who cares? And, of course, you have to watch out for unseemly characters, but that's the same no matter how you meet someone. You can't really expect a website to do all the work for you, you are ultimately responsible for weeding out the bad seeds (and there could be lots of them) but if you take the time, are responsible, have enough of a sense of humor to laugh at some of the crazy matches they send you (as you close them out), and aren't one of the crazy people yourself (remember, the only common link of all your failed relationships is you), this service can work.

I'll admit I was very skeptical at first, but I've met several attractive, professional women - beyond any of my initial expectations. I paid for a one month subscription and extended for another and feel it was money well spent. I guess for those who think the site is a ripoff you can always go back to meeting "normal" people the old fashioned way - bars, library, church, etc. How's that working for you?