Match.com isn't interested in finding matches for their customers, only getting the money upfront and not refunding it when the customer is dissatisfied. I joined for 6 mos and after one month, had enough. The matches sent did not match my requirements (did not want children nor date anyone who had children living at home). They sent me matches from out of state (what reality is there is establishing a meaningful relationship that lives across the country? I sent out lots of winks and emails to guys and no response. Those that wrote reviews about women being vain didn't have my experience with these cocky, self-centered males I apparently tried to make contact with. No one had the courtesy of responding, even to say "no thanks." This whole thing has soured me for online dating. I was an EHarmony customer about five years ago and the experience was about what Match.com was. I wouldn't even rate Match.com with 1 star but that was my lowest choice. Match.com sent me a match where the guy was total disfigured in his face and kept emailing me even after I told him I wasn't interested. Then there were those few guys that once I sent them a light email, they came back with all kinds of platitudes about love and the meaning of it and how this and that. A little strong for the first email. Warning to those considering Match.com - STAY AWAY!