I have been on eharmony for less that 4 months, and they are dangerous beyond being money-grabbing. This site is highly suspect not only for the reason listed in the previous posts. But, my experience suggests they don't screen their members, and have no filter to prevent one member signing up under several aliases. FAIR WARNING. I have closed the matches, but still get more of the same--downloaded profile??? Clues include profile content does not match Open communication conversation; several matches having identical life stories (i.e. dead wife; embarking on a lucrative new business venture: gold, oil, diamonds, etc). Be careful and alert ladies. I suspect there is some untoward exploitative activity--especially given the prevailing stereotypes of women who pursue online dating as an option.