Is there anyone else who would like to file a CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT. (Any lawyers reading this?) This is highway robbery. I would give eharmony negative 5 stars. This is the worst dating site that is out there and I don't believe for one second that they have the most engagements or marriages. Here my story: I went on one date fairly quickly with a guy who wanted Fast Track communication instead of Guided Communication. In person he was nothing like his pics or his profile, he ordered ribs which he picked up and ate with his hands (OK) but proceeded to drop the bones onto the table! Then when the waitress came to get his dish he just sat there, so I said "Are you going to pick up the bones for her?" and he still just sat there. She swept them up with her bare hand, dropped them in the dish herself and left. Nasty! Since then I have done one complete "Guided Communication" which ended up being closed shortly after and we never even talked on the phone. All the rest have not gotten past the "First Questions" stage. CAN YOU SPELL RIP-OFF? I want my damn money back. I signed up for a year and so far, for the 3 months that I have been signed up, I have not had anyone so much as answer the first questions. I have around a half-dozen "waiting for answers" on my match list, and most of these I don't see myself so much as kissing. YUK! You don't get to pick any of your own matches. I hate this site. I will be speaking with my credit card.